She’s Human


I am a woman.
If I am thin they’ll call me skinny and still call a guy the same size as mine slender. Claiming that’s their size. If I grow fat they’ll call me pum pum. Him he’ll be chubby. They’re okay with chubby guys.
I eat a lot then I’m a hog. Him,”he needs to eat. HE IS A MAN!!”  So mine’s not a stomachπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.
These men thoughπŸ˜–πŸ˜–
I get into a relationship, my boyfriend lies to me yet i’m told to understand. It’s his nature he’s growing up. If he doesn’t do it now he’ll not be straight with me in the future. Who cares whether he’s crooked or not😏😏. I see him texting a whore he says “it’s  just social media” so I should just sit there and let him cyber fuck her 😡😡.
I call a guy when he’s around and he’ll say I’m not taking our relationship seriously. That I shouldn’t have close male friends they’ll spoil me yet his contact list looks like a girl’s school name register.
I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.
Because I am a woman, I don’t have a right to be angry. So, the degree of my innocence is directly proportional to the degree of my silence in the face of oppression and brutality…..
 My husband cheats on me, I am told to tolerate it to save my marriage. The barbaric and stupid excuse is that ”it is their nature to cheat, I should slim down, dress better, cook better, pray harder and be more pleasant to him”
I cheat, and I am called a whore, I have committed an abomination, I have no right to look elsewhere for the love and emotional support I lack at home, I am an irresponsible mother.
He is 28 and runs a company. He’s tagged wonderful, hardworking, focused, career oriented, successful at a very young age.
I am 28 and I run a company ” Hmmmm, she is not even married, unserious, can not order her priorities right, a hustler, loves money, let her go and get a husband oh”

And I wonder if being successful has anything to do with a person’s gender.
Because I am a woman,

I am not allowed to have wits or be a prodigy, I cannot be financially buoyant, professionally successful or be treated with respect without a man beside me.
Then I am tagged a generous leg opener, “a runs girl”. They never see the possibility that I actually had to go through ups and downs to get to where I am.

Because I am a woman.A man looses his wife to death and remarries a year after, he did the right thing, he’s being praised and congratulated for moving on, after all life is for the living.
A woman looses her husband to death and remarries after 4yrs, “ahhh! so early? Are you sure she wasn’t sleeping with that man even when her husband was alive? That was why she killed her husband. She’s a witch! ” Because she’s a woman.

Because I am a woman, this post will be considered controversial, and everyone will try to correct me.

But don’t forget, that I am a woman and it does not make me less human!!!


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18 Replies to “She’s Human”

  1. i really like this piece alot. The main point has been clearly brought out😊😊😊😊😊❀❀❀❀#WomenEmpowerment

  2. It saddens me when two genders are on the run for a spot but the man is considered for it with or without the skill yet the woman with a zeal for the job doesn’t get noticed or qualifies for it simply because her place is in the kitchen so they say and her children who they bore together which leaves the woman with nothing. This is an amazing piece girl

  3. I am captivated by your posts. I want to read everything. Your mind is beautiful. And, yes, i totally agree with this post. Simply because we are women we are not treated equal but rather society expects us to be fenced in a cube. Women can never be equal to men, we have been demeaned so much that we hardly see our value. We are far more superior to our counterparts(oh yes!) and every woman out there ought to appreciate and uphold herself as a pillar and foundation of the so called “society”

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